Create healthier relationship realities…

We will keep trying to talk ourselves
out of how we feel until we begin
to believe in our right to feel it.

Is it hard for you to clarify or express what you want and need in relationships?

Do you believe that you are worthy of love and respect exactly as you are?

How many times have you been in a relationship and tried to convince yourself of any of the following? 

  • That if only you would change, if you were better, if you were more something or less something, you’d be ok with what you’re not ok with. 

  • That your feelings, intuitions, perspectives, knowledge, and wisdom are not to be trusted. 

  • That there is something wrong with you.

Until you’re able to develop a deep connection to and trust in yourself, the invalidation you’ve likely encountered and the wounds you’ve likely experienced will keep you stuck in unhealthy or unsatisfying loops. They’ll shape your narrative about what you have a right to expect. They’ll encourage you to abandon yourself to maintain relationships. They’ll keep you from being able to make changes you want, to choose what you want, and to even be able to know what you want.
You’ll settle. You’ll suffer. No. Not ok.

YOU DESERVE SO MUCH MORE!

If you want to be able to identify and move towards relationships that are right for you and either heal or move away from ones that aren’t, you’ll find support here.

  • Jessica Hornstein is doing amazing work as a coach. She has a deep and personal understanding of the effects that invalidation has on our inner and outer lives.

    So many of us have been shamed, shunned, and gaslit, while seeking to speak and live our truths. So many of us have fallen into the clutches of narcissists and other naysayers who are invested in convincing us that they know better. So many of us have been prevented from becoming all that we are meant to become. The effect of all of this is that we stumble through life, not quite sure who we are or why we are here.

    Whether you are needing someone to non-judgmentally hold the space for your story, or someone to help you find and walk your truest path, Jessica is an excellent listener and guide. She can meet you where you are, and support you as you take the next steps towards the life you are born to live.

    —Jeff Brown, author of Soulshaping and Hearticulations

  • There are miracle workers and there are life coaches. Jessica is both. If you need a coach to help you achieve some specific goals that have always eluded you or solve some problems that have plagued you for far too long, she is the best. If you want your life completely transformed and are willing to take a plunge into unknown territory, she will be there to guide you and make you feel safe on that journey. Working with Jessica, I was inspired and motivated to unblock some major obstacles to success, and to stay focused on a path to finding and fulfilling my life's dreams.—Gary S.

  • It was the summer of 2012…that is when I met Jessica, this bright, warm, and sympathetic soul that divinely crossed my path and intervened in my life as it was spinning a bit out of control. Jessica stepped in and offered love, care and attention…each small step built upon the other and eventually snowballed into greater and more powerful shifts. Jessica has been the spark that ignited an entire lifestyle shift…I will forever be indebted to her for all the love, support and nourishment she poured into my body and soul.—Jill K.

  • Talking with Jessica has been a blessing. She's in my corner, understanding exactly what is going on, even when I feel I can't properly articulate it. She asks the questions that help me see what I’ve struggled to see from within the situation and find my own way forward. She's helped me build my self-esteem, feel stronger, follow my path, and know that I deserve to be seen, heard and loved.—Gabriel G.

  • Before I started working with Jessica, I was convinced that nothing could be done to change my eating habits and, ultimately, the state of my body. Today, I am much healthier and happier.—Madeline P.